I'm still listening. Cat04, I'm scheduled to go fly to Germany (free) and take an exam. Since I'll be halfway to W's place, I'm trying to plan the trip around her request to help her move to the smaller flat. This is the soonest I can go.
I understand the dialogue about commitment, but if I visited more often, I'll be spending on avg $300-400 for a round trip ticket each time. My budget isn't built for frequent trips. Yes, I can rearrange the finances for this, but our ability to become debt-free will be greatly set back by a year or two. I'm already providing W $1650/mo. for food/rent/expenses.
