Okay. So I did some stupid backslides but I think I can recover.
First one was respond to my w email and ask " have I done anything to upset you recently, you seem prett angry with me. " W says. " not angry with you and you haven't done anything to upset me recently"
Second backslide was refer to W comment about if I "would be happy to see the family relationship centre. " My response was " not really happy about this at all but I understand this is what you want and I am happy to support you with your decision"
In retrospect I should have just kept my mouth shut and just agreed to meet... which i kinda did but then overcooked it. Live and learn.
I realise now that this whole family R centre meeting is about ensuring that we do what's best for the kids and I am sure this is her main focus right now and not just divorcing me.
Me - 37 W - 37 M -5 T - 15
S=5 S=3
Seperated - 12/12 BD - 20/03/13 Still seperated - no R or M talk yet.