Okay. So I did some stupid backslides but I think I can recover.

First one was respond to my w email and ask
" have I done anything to upset you recently, you seem prett angry with me. "
W says. " not angry with you and you haven't done anything to upset me recently"

Second backslide was refer to W comment about if I "would be happy to see the family relationship centre. "
My response was " not really happy about this at all but I understand this is what you want and I am happy to support you with your decision"

In retrospect I should have just kept my mouth shut and just agreed to meet... which i kinda did but then overcooked it. Live and learn.

I realise now that this whole family R centre meeting is about ensuring that we do what's best for the kids and I am sure this is her main focus right now and not just divorcing me.


Me - 37
W - 37
M -5
T - 15

S=5
S=3

Seperated - 12/12
BD - 20/03/13
Still seperated - no R or M talk yet.