Nothing at all wrong with that but you'll know you're starting to become detached when Bigfoot enters the dream. Now the unicorn I'm not sure I can explain...Maybe I'm just a little off in the head.
Originally Posted By: mrtwopointfour
In turn, this makes W feel unhappy and she probably goes back to point 1 and starts being more picky. See where I am going with this?
Not sure. Hopefully you're saying either (1)I'm going to be the one to change and in doing that her actions and reactions will have to change (butterfly affect) And (2)I won't let (2) happen anymore because her reactions don't have any affect on me and I will continue to have a PMA.
Am I close?
Yes, absolutely. I am trying very hard to change the things I have been doing that prompt these picky episodes, but some are pure human error which I don't think can be avoided. When these occur I am going to not react, and simply admit fault or agree with W (if she has a valid point).
To get there I need to also lighten the mood in the house, relax a little and humour W. it's kind of working, at the moment when she finds us having a good joke and laugh she will tend to end it by calling me something rude, in a lighthearted but 'end the joke' way. I think this is a baby step, as she is relaxing having fun, but recognising that and trying to stop herself.
Me: 38 W: 35 M: 9Yrs T: 15Yrs S8 D5 BD: Feb 13 Still Living Together
I feel like I'm in thick forest, I'm slowly drawing a map of the way out, but not sure yet which side of the forest I will emerge.
