Yes my lawyer is brilliant. Heck of a nice guy too. Not your typical lawyer. He's really a down to earth guy.
It just floors me that H is getting a "reality check" by all these authority figures and yet he still is clueless about what's really going on. When he was venting to me all he kept saying over and over was "how this is going to affect me" "me" "me"!!! So it's all about H. It's always been all about H.
He called me four times today regarding this situation. He left the recorder by my bed and asked me earlier if I had listened to it yet. I said no, it's S's birthday and I've been spending time with the kids. He practically begged me to listen to it. I am not doing it tonight. He's just a pain in my arse.
The bank also sent a letter that we are past due on a payment and we are being sent to collections. H called to share that good news with me and I told him I made that payment. He argued with me so I called the bank to get to the bottom of it. Long story short I dropped the payment off in the drop box and the branch never sent in my payment to the corporate office. The woman I talked to was very pleasant and accommodating and she apologized and said there will be no late charge or collections. I thanked her, took her name and number and tried to call H who didn't answer the phone so I said heck with it. When I talked to him later tonight he told me the bank called him (which I don't believe) and apologized profusely and told him everything was straightened out. He made it out that the bank was practically begging for his forgiveness and that he was going to call them tomorrow and give them a piece of his mind and make them sign in blood that we are not liable for a missed payment. Now that's how to won friends and influence people.
What a macadamia.
WH
AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012 Two kids, one dog D Final 6/18/14 J marries OW 1/24/15 "No matter where you go, there you are"
