Well, happy anniversary, then. crazy

OK, well. I can certainly tell that you are tired. And by your relating your W's comments, she is, too. But...

Not tired enough to do something about it... if you know what I mean. Which then suggests... neither of you are done, yet. The limbo isn't bad enough for either of you to move forward... until one of you does...

How would you move forward? What would that look like, for jb? i mean forward, without your W and M. Truly surrender...