often (when removed from the immediate situation) I feel horrible for Cori...he is basically in a no-win situation (just like you)
I mean...
if he makes the "right" choice, according to my mind...I basically take the credit anyway and he is the bad guy for disciplining them (to the boys) and if he doesn't choose the way I would then I get angry and feel like he doesn't understand them or us and how could he do that and...
it's tough and puts an awful strain on the situation
