Wife is having an emotional affair

[Alan A.]

My wife and I have been married almost a year(no children). In the past week I noticed my wife sending and receiving a lot more text messages than usual but didn't think too much of it at first. Then she started trying to hide her texting from me, like only texting when she thought i wasn't paying attention or hiding her phone on the other side of her leg if we were sitting together. I could tell something was up. I had a pretty good idea who she was texting and eventually asked her about it, she said that she was only hiding it because she felt bad about texting her friend so much and though it would upset me. I explained to her that she doesn't have to feel bad about texting a friend and she doesn't need to hide it. Something still didn't feel right with her behavior for a few days after that and it seemed like whenever she had free time between classes she was hanging out with this guy, so I asked her if she had feelings for him and she responded that she didn't know. Then the next day she told me that she did but still loved me and couldn't decide what to do. I was shocked because i thought everything had be going relatively ok (we had been having intimacy issues). I have always done my best to show her that I love her and tell her everyday. I do things for her all the time and take the time to complement her and tell her she is beautiful. I asked her if she wanted to try and save our marriage and she just said she didn't know what she wanted anymore. She said she didn't feel like I showed her that I love her, and we talked a for a bit about that then she said I guess you do show me you love me and I just don't realize it. This morning I asked her if she still wanted to be married to me and she said that she didn't want to keep hurting me and that she was afraid she was going to cheat on me. I asked if that meant no she didn't want to be married and she said she did not. At this point I pretty much broke down and I don't know what to do. I would do anything to save our marriage but she said she didn't want to fight for it. I asked if she would be willing to go to counseling and she said that if I could find a counselor and setup an appointment she would go, but were both students and do really have any money to see a counselor. Also she is in a performance at school and is at rehearsal until 11 every night, so she doesn't really have any times when she could go until after the performance is over in about 2 weeks. I just don't know what I can do to prevent losing her and I'm falling apart.
Sorry if parts of this don't make sense, I feel like I'm losing my mind.