Wow, ((((((in it)))))). First of all, just wow - a new little life! There are a few pregnant DB-ers and one who just had her baby. I hope you can take in all the support and love you need from your buddies here and your friends and family.
Second, your H is a real piece of work, isn't he? Keep doing what you're doing and don't let his spew set you back. Don't listen to it. I'm not sure how he can live with himself and speak those words; he must be in a pretty low place. The best response is to hold your head high and be the best you you can be, and take care of yourself.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
