Hey Bright

I am so sorry you had a difficult day. There do seem to be many of those when we go through this.

Someone posted once that whether or not this is MLC is in a way not relevant as our actions such as GAL and taking care of ourselves should come no matter what. Make sure that if he is pushing for divorce that you protect yourself. You do not need his permission to see a lawyer with regard to what your rights are and what to expect.

My xSO and I were not married so I hope those who have dealt directly with this issue will chime in with some advice for you. Just know that this is the business side of things. Do not let him play nice so that he can stab you in the back later.

Bright one of the best ways to get posts is to keep posting and let us get to know you. Keep posting we are here to help.