Stuck..how do I get out???

[tiredndrained]

Thank you...i agree....i didn't answer his calls today but he kept calling n calling. I started to worry there was a prob w kids. I am seriously trying to gain strength n go dimmer. Its the pursuit distance thing that drives me insane. I realize i may have to be the one to leave. I think the hardest part is gaining the strength to turn my life n my kids life upside down. He clearly doesn't want to be there so why won't he go?? I offered to sell the house split the assets help him find an apt but he doesn't make any moves.