So I "gently" asked her about the number during a phone call with her. She admitted that it was a guy that she works with but said that "it was nothing". Well, IMO, receiving a call from another man at 4am is definitely something. She said that she just needed to talk with someone.

I told her that I trusted her and I didn't think she would do anything like that. I don't think that I really meant it though. Deep down I think that I wanted her to feel guilty. The image of her with another man is seriously tormenting me!! I don't know how to continue with this. Do I just act like nothings happening when I talk to or see her?? I need advice on this.


Me:38, Wife:36
M:8
T:13
No kids
Bomb:3/10/13
W moved out:3/30/13
Started D paperwork: 10/14/13
D final: 12/30/13
To a future of love and happiness...