gman, why on EARTH are you sharing marital trouble discussions with members of the opposite sex in your workplace?

Lose the "office wife", or your wife has every cause to disrespect you.

Sharing marital problems with members of the opposite sex in your workplace is a huge marriage NO NO.

if you want respect gman, you need to earn it every day. And you are disrespecting your wife right now by sharing that info at work.