I read where a lot of H's mistake his W's "niceness"as some level of caring....or even loving him. Don't even go there. It will get you more messed up than you already are. Don't take this type of action from her as meaning anything more than what it seems on the surface.
This is good advice, I will remember this. Especially when living with W still, I think its easier to fall into this trap.
Papa4Life - Thanks for your post on my thread. I started a new one so did not reply as want the old one to run down a little.
Me: 38 W: 35 M: 9Yrs T: 15Yrs S8 D5 BD: Feb 13 Still Living Together
I feel like I'm in thick forest, I'm slowly drawing a map of the way out, but not sure yet which side of the forest I will emerge.