Well, I hope you're right, but it's probably b/c she just wants you to be okay with what she wants......which is a D.
I read where a lot of H's mistake his W's "niceness"as some level of caring....or even loving him. Don't even go there. It will get you more messed up than you already are. Don't take this type of action from her as meaning anything more than what it seems on the surface.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
