Yep, he is his own worst enemy and he is too blinded to see that.
Apparently he doesn't listen very well. The judge has already stated that he wants the property settlement done correctly. It's too late now for you and your h to try to work things out in order to "rush" this along. August is 4 months away and anything can happen between now and then. I know you want this over and done with, but it is better to do things slowly and accurately so that there aren't any mistakes along the way.
Hang in there. He's going to be crying the blues for quite some time.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
