So w came home from vacation and contacted me the next day. She sent a text asking if she could call later.. so I said ok after waiting a while .. and she called. I missed her call and called her back.. so she says that reason that she called was to tell me that she transferred some money to the bank account to cover her bills. I said thank you and asked if that was all and she said yes and the call ended. Bizarre. She could have just said that in the original text. .. I am guessing that she wanted to me open up the conversation to connect a little me .. so today I text-ed her and asked if our landscaping company took care of the yard .. I asked her to cancel the service because I would not be able to cover that expense. I then said that I hoped she was able to relax on her vacation and that it would help her feel better at work. This opened up the flood gates for her to tell me all about the vacation and her work and that everything was good and she hope I was doing well too and that I should take care of myself. So we text-ed back and forth for a bit.. I don't know if this was good or bad .. nice conversation but I am not sure how it affects "us".. is it time to go dark again? How do I grow from a nice exchange of text messages? She will be gone this next weekend.


Me-45
W-44
T-7 years
M-3 years (4th anniversary July 13, but we're separated)
Kids from previous relationships (s14 d16 mine, s23, s24 hers)