TnD,

do you answer his calls/texts?

If you really want space from your H, you may have to be the one to take steps. Start by "dimming".

You aren't crazy, its very typical MLC roller coaster. Very very typical.

Up to you to back away from the insanity!

Me 46 H 56
M 22 yrs
S22, D20, Twin Ss18

You teach people how to treat you by what you allow.
What you stop.
And what you reinforce.
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A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.