Yeah, I hear what you am are saying. Have to admit that although my wife is having EA not sure whether it progressed into PA.
The point I was trying to make is that i understand why she has been tempted and this makes me less angry at her for being so. I think this may help me detach a little. Although she is also planning another 'weekend away' soon - so who knows where my mind will wander off to on the lead up to that. This is a target for me, I need to detach by the time she goes away. I need to not be spending that whole weekend wondering who she is with.
Me: 38 W: 35 M: 9Yrs T: 15Yrs S8 D5 BD: Feb 13 Still Living Together
I feel like I'm in thick forest, I'm slowly drawing a map of the way out, but not sure yet which side of the forest I will emerge.