Crazy little thing called MLC

[Raine]

1st Thread - Completely heartbroken by husband's MLC
2nd Thread - Rinse, repeat, replay
3rd Thread - Here we go loopty loo. Here we go loopty li.

This thing called MLC I just can't handle it
This thing called MLC I must get round to it
I ain't ready
Crazy little thing called MLC
This (This Thing) called MLC (Called MLC)
It cries (Like a baby) In a cradle all night
It swings (Woo Woo) It jives (Woo Woo)
It shakes all over like a jelly fish,
I DON'T like it
Crazy little thing called MLC

I was thinking my new thread would start when baby was here, but oh no, crazy MLC man had to put things into full throttle, as if baby was going to take him out of his realm for awhile, total "Leaving Las Vegas" style. Like he is going to have a baby here (does OW4 know? is she going to go all weird on him when things start showing on FB?) and he is going to have to take care of his kids first the first time in 6 months. It's like he knows his "alcohol" is going away and he is going on an all out Nicolas Cage binge. I just can't make this stuff up. I am guessing almost everyone here at one point has thought, "I need to write a book on this, but I just don't think anyone will believe it's nonfiction."

Saturday night we got into it a little bit too much, where I know I came off as pursuing. I told H that I don't want to want him if he doesn't want me, otherwise it just feels meaningless. That I might as well sleep around because the who doesn't matter. I told him that I want to be validated that he cares about me, even though I tell myself he doesn't, and sorry for bringing him into my inner fight. I know I come across as confusing, because I don't want to be hurt by his response. I left myself pretty vulnerable, to which he only replied, Sorry you feel that way. So that just ticked me off and I haven't communicated with him since, ignoring all his dumb game requests on the phone.

Yesterday I started making plans to get D paperwork done after baby was here. OW4 posted yesterday how nice it was to get a call telling her how special she is and how much he likes and appreciates her. Gag me. But I started reading posts made this morning by TWS, snodderly, and beatrice about A and thought I need to slow down and give it a little more time. I don't want to be the reason he ends up in a marriage with one of OW. It was getting later and H still wasn't at work, an hour late now, so I check what was going on. And I don't know why I think this is so funny, but I could not stop laughing.

Yesterday H spends most of the day with OW1, I'm assuming. Shopping, movie, whatever. He stopped by her apt and he was all over the place for several hours, but didn't spend any money on the CC. He could have stopped by and she wasn't there, and was just wandering around. But he probably was with her. Then he goes home for a few hours. Then heads out and spends an hour with OW4. Cue her FB posts about being special. Then he goes home for a few hours and leaves again to spend several early morning hours at OW1 place and then gets back home about 4am. No wonder he can't get up to go to work. And yes OW4 you are so special that he waited an entire 2 hours before going to screw someone else. And for some reason I'm in a great mood and heading out to lunch. Cheers!