We all need to "clear our heads"- What I "enjoy" about this site is that no matter what pain she puts me thru - someone else (or many others) already have the T-Shirt.
I know what you mean. On one hand, it is nice to know that we're not alone; on the other hand, it's awful to see so many marriages in trouble.
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GREAT GOALS!- How do you feel about them? If we nail these we will be doing pretty damn good:)
Pretty good! I'm looking forward to seeing how low I can get my weight. My next hearing is in June, so that gives me some time.
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Im at 218 this AM- Im THINKING i might push for sub 200 by June 22 Im a bit hesitant because i know ill slow down as I go but the positive attention I recieved on Friday (new jeans) motivated me. This weekend I bought a "Large" shirt and 36 "comfort waist" pants in hopes it will propel me.
Nice! What are you doing to drop this weight (besides the initial BD weight loss)? I had kept my wardrobe from when I was lighter, and I only dress in classic styles (no trendy clothes that get dated), so I haven't been spending much on clothes yet. I will probably have to as I continue to drop.
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I understand your wife is currently out of the house but allow me to share something personal and painful with you that I hope will help you look at your sitch in a new paradigm.......
This weekend I had to watch my wife get ready, then leave, for a date with the other guy.
My little girl asked her Mommy and Daddy to hug - and she wouldnt even hug me.
That is so, so awful. I don't think I could even begin to cope with that. I know that the LBS aren't perfect, but I think the behavior of the WAS in some of these situations is absolutely reprehensible. Congratulations on keeping it together, man; you're a stronger man than I.
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Achieve these goals Leftcoast and you will be in a better position to do whatever the hell you want moving foward.
But lets take this time to invest in us while detaching- we cant feel sorry for us waiting for them to decide.....
SOOOOOOO- What the heck did you do this weekend ?
Yep, gotta keep working on us. That's all we can do. This weekend I didn't do much, watched a couple movies, read some chapters in self-help books, organized around my place, and helped my mom around hers. How about you?
