WAKE UP!:) Whats on the agenda for today/ this weekend?
ME 38 W 37 T18 M5 D3 BD 1/7/13 PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing 2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13 W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13 First mediation appt 12/19/13
Sorry about that, I just didn't feel like being on here this weekend. Too many people in the same awful condition as me.
Okay, so here's my revised goals w/ dates:
1. Get weight down to at most 200 lb by August 1; preferably 185. 2. Apply for at least two jobs on my career path a week 4. Go skydiving by Sept 1 5. Complete the C25K program and run a 5K by June 20.
We all need to "clear our heads"- What I "enjoy" about this site is that no matter what pain she puts me thru - someone else (or many others) already have the T-Shirt.
GREAT GOALS!- How do you feel about them? If we nail these we will be doing pretty damn good:)
Im at 218 this AM- Im THINKING i might push for sub 200 by June 22 Im a bit hesitant because i know ill slow down as I go but the positive attention I recieved on Friday (new jeans) motivated me. This weekend I bought a "Large" shirt and 36 "comfort waist" pants in hopes it will propel me.
I understand your wife is currently out of the house but allow me to share something personal and painful with you that I hope will help you look at your sitch in a new paradigm.......
This weekend I had to watch my wife get ready, then leave, for a date with the other guy.
My little girl asked her Mommy and Daddy to hug - and she wouldnt even hug me.
Achieve these goals Leftcoast and you will be in a better position to do whatever the hell you want moving foward.
But lets take this time to invest in us while detaching- we cant feel sorry for us waiting for them to decide.....
SOOOOOOO- What the heck did you do this weekend ?
ME 38 W 37 T18 M5 D3 BD 1/7/13 PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing 2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13 W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13 First mediation appt 12/19/13
We all need to "clear our heads"- What I "enjoy" about this site is that no matter what pain she puts me thru - someone else (or many others) already have the T-Shirt.
GREAT GOALS!- How do you feel about them? If we nail these we will be doing pretty damn good:)
Im at 218 this AM- Im THINKING i might push for sub 200 by June 22 Im a bit hesitant because i know ill slow down as I go but the positive attention I recieved on Friday (new jeans) motivated me. This weekend I bought a "Large" shirt and 36 "comfort waist" pants in hopes it will propel me.
I understand your wife is currently out of the house but allow me to share something personal and painful with you that I hope will help you look at your sitch in a new paradigm.......
This weekend I had to watch my wife get ready, then leave, for a date with the other guy.
My little girl asked her Mommy and Daddy to hug - and she wouldnt even hug me.
Achieve these goals Leftcoast and you will be in a better position to do whatever the hell you want moving foward.
But lets take this time to invest in us while detaching- we cant feel sorry for us waiting for them to decide.....
SOOOOOOO- What the heck did you do this weekend ?
Your positiveness inspires me! Sounds like you have found the path, keep on it! BTW I put on 6 lbs in 4 days wth! !!!
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
We all need to "clear our heads"- What I "enjoy" about this site is that no matter what pain she puts me thru - someone else (or many others) already have the T-Shirt.
I know what you mean. On one hand, it is nice to know that we're not alone; on the other hand, it's awful to see so many marriages in trouble.
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GREAT GOALS!- How do you feel about them? If we nail these we will be doing pretty damn good:)
Pretty good! I'm looking forward to seeing how low I can get my weight. My next hearing is in June, so that gives me some time.
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Im at 218 this AM- Im THINKING i might push for sub 200 by June 22 Im a bit hesitant because i know ill slow down as I go but the positive attention I recieved on Friday (new jeans) motivated me. This weekend I bought a "Large" shirt and 36 "comfort waist" pants in hopes it will propel me.
Nice! What are you doing to drop this weight (besides the initial BD weight loss)? I had kept my wardrobe from when I was lighter, and I only dress in classic styles (no trendy clothes that get dated), so I haven't been spending much on clothes yet. I will probably have to as I continue to drop.
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I understand your wife is currently out of the house but allow me to share something personal and painful with you that I hope will help you look at your sitch in a new paradigm.......
This weekend I had to watch my wife get ready, then leave, for a date with the other guy.
My little girl asked her Mommy and Daddy to hug - and she wouldnt even hug me.
That is so, so awful. I don't think I could even begin to cope with that. I know that the LBS aren't perfect, but I think the behavior of the WAS in some of these situations is absolutely reprehensible. Congratulations on keeping it together, man; you're a stronger man than I.
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Achieve these goals Leftcoast and you will be in a better position to do whatever the hell you want moving foward.
But lets take this time to invest in us while detaching- we cant feel sorry for us waiting for them to decide.....
SOOOOOOO- What the heck did you do this weekend ?
Yep, gotta keep working on us. That's all we can do. This weekend I didn't do much, watched a couple movies, read some chapters in self-help books, organized around my place, and helped my mom around hers. How about you?
Ive worked up the 2x25 (real) pushups a day (When I started I could do 11 - using my knees)
2x80 "Bicycles" a day- This has worked MAGIC
1000-1200 calories a day (If you want details to do this super easy let me know)
GNC "Mega Man" Vitamins 2x/day
Walk walk walk walk walk walk walk
This past weekend- Wrapped up a seasonal hobby of mine on Sat (ill miss that - absorbed ALOT of what would ordinarily be alone time). Then went shopping with daughter on sunday after helping a sick friend.
Will focus on finding no/low cost activities next several weeks as Ive been doing alot of "retail therapy"- VERY BAD!
ME 38 W 37 T18 M5 D3 BD 1/7/13 PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing 2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13 W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13 First mediation appt 12/19/13
ME 38 W 37 T18 M5 D3 BD 1/7/13 PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing 2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13 W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13 First mediation appt 12/19/13
Read "SOOOOOO back for more advice by "Just a guy"
You will be inspired
ME 38 W 37 T18 M5 D3 BD 1/7/13 PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing 2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13 W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13 First mediation appt 12/19/13
ME 38 W 37 T18 M5 D3 BD 1/7/13 PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing 2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13 W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13 First mediation appt 12/19/13
