Ya...it's a bit sad, I think, but I have to give him the space. I will still be friendly and react to all texts etc. Because even though he professes "serious" relationship, you would not have been fooling around with me, talking with me, seeing me etc, without GF;s knowledge. So, he needs some space to see what he truly wants and I need the opportunity to detach bit more. He forgets that I have received texts bemoaning the GF and neediness and her questions etc. (not often, but still there)

We talked about future (separate) but he felt the need to add in "Man makes plans and God laughs"