Yep I think you're right. My W who left 3 months ago has another man and apparently "he's the one" but I'm hoping its just those initial in love feelings that dissolve.
I think about other women too now - partly because I'm lonely and miss companionship but I am desperately trying to save my marriage/family and until I can be 100 percent certain that, that isn't possible then I will remain faithful - although it's very hard when thinking about W cuddling and get emotional and physical support from OM.
W 39 Me 33 M 9yrs 8 year old Son ILYBINILWY - Dec 12 W moved out - Jan 2013 OM - Jan 2013 I file for D - May 2013