What are your plans for the kids if you decide to move? I am not sure of the laws where you're at, but everything I've seen prevents us from taking the kids out of state for more than 90 days without agreement.
My eldest will be at school in the city and living near his dad, we tend to boot them out early in this province (lol- not really, but since I am in country, he must travel or move to go to the next stage of schooling)
My H and I have spoken about this and he is fine with D coming along for a year or more. He feels it would be a great opportunity and we also know that D has option to return here anytime if things didn't go well wherever I was. Frankly, H loves our kids, but is not really involved in their lives. As he has said, he wouldn't give them up for anything, but if he could do it all over, he wouldn't have kids. And he never wanted a second child, that was me. So, while I know his commitment to them is 100% always, I am not quite sure that he is as connected to them as I am. I also was the SAHM while he commuted and only saw them weekends. Then about 5 years back, had an apt. in city (beginning of the end lol) and only came home weekends.
Long answer to your very short q BD, but I felt a little background was necessary to establish why it would be okay if I took D with me.
Originally Posted By: findingself
Inside...good goal to focus on the kids this week...but don't get lost in there too...
As for the tarot cards...had mine read on Saturday, funny how the first card was house..so much of us focused on that...first time having my cards read...funny they were pretty believable...we will see though..."long awaited news" is the next on my list?
No, I just want to give a little more back to them, they've been ripped off the past month or two. I promise I won't get lost I have too much on my own plate lol!! Picking up teaching days, finishing a course, painting bedroom, hosting a girls night, meeting colleagues for drinks...etc.
Tarot flipped up Judgement yesterday in Love....funny because it means that I am re evaluating the path I am taking and if I am to love again, I have to break with past . This is well after discussion with H and the admission by me that although I am not ready for a relationship, I am becoming ready to be loved, cherished and accepted for who I am. I pretty much want it all
to establish why it would be okay if I took D with me.
