So he has to leave the casino to use the bathroom? Don't they have bathrooms in the casino?
I don't get it?!?!?
They do, but H is particular about where he "goes".... so it was either rent a hotel room or come home.
Originally Posted By: Snodderly
I had to laugh...
Oh definitely. Me too.
H has said it is good to be in his own bed and to have his own bathroom. No, I didn't "expect" any grand gestures - but thought the whole "well I do have to go potty, so might as well go home" was noteworthy.
Strained homecoming, at least on my side. I know H needs support right now, and it is my instinct to go to him, to hug etc. But its almost as if there is a force field?
I do recognize that it will take time for him to calm down from the 2 weeks spent with his parents, time too for us to figure out again just exactly what our roles are in this new post bomb world. Of course, just prior to going up to his folks things had begun to settle a bit. Now its all topsy turvy again.
Thank you MissA, W,H & Snodderly for stopping by.
Me 46 H 56 M 22 yrs S22, D20, Twin Ss18
You teach people how to treat you by what you allow. What you stop. And what you reinforce. ~~~~~~~ A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.
