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[Incandenza]

Thank you. I agree with you that this is a decision she has to come to on her own. Me forcing the topic won't help but will only make her more determined. I know this will be true especially with my W because she is very strong-willed. I am very concerned that there is an underlying component of depression at play as well and that is making it even more complicated because she is blaming all her unhappiness on me. He has all the classic signs and symptoms of depression and has for much longer than these problems have been evident to me.

I will not talk about the relationship. I will be as pleasant and happy as possible in her presence. I will cherish my daughter infinitely. I will be ok, and hopefully she will see. I will GAL.