Crazy! I JUST logged on and you just posted- WOW

We all need to "clear our heads"- What I "enjoy" about this site is that no matter what pain she puts me thru - someone else (or many others) already have the T-Shirt.

GREAT GOALS!- How do you feel about them? If we nail these we will be doing pretty damn good:)

Im at 218 this AM- Im THINKING i might push for sub 200 by June 22
Im a bit hesitant because i know ill slow down as I go but the positive attention I recieved on Friday (new jeans) motivated me.
This weekend I bought a "Large" shirt and 36 "comfort waist" pants in hopes it will propel me.

I understand your wife is currently out of the house but allow me to share something personal and painful with you that I hope will help you look at your sitch in a new paradigm.......

This weekend I had to watch my wife get ready, then leave, for a date with the other guy.

My little girl asked her Mommy and Daddy to hug - and she wouldnt even hug me.

Achieve these goals Leftcoast and you will be in a better position to do whatever the hell you want moving foward.

But lets take this time to invest in us while detaching- we cant feel sorry for us waiting for them to decide.....

SOOOOOOO- What the heck did you do this weekend ?


ME 38 W 37
T18 M5
D3
BD 1/7/13
PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing
2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13
W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13
First mediation appt 12/19/13