Seeking the support of this great community...

[Maritimer]

I know how hard it is in the early months so just hang in there. It gets slightly easier. This forum is a wonderful support network and it helps your mental well being tremendously.

Do all you can to improve yourself and spent as much time as you can with your daughter. You will have a new appreciation for her. That is a gift this situation has presented to you.

When kids are involved it becomes much more complicated emotionally. Logical thoughts are not in the WAW head at the moment. They need time to come to a conclusion in what they want to do.

Keep thinking positively and lovingly detach.