Thanks, everyone. I will be traveling to Ohio for the funeral and burial.

My brother didn't have a will that we are aware of, so that adds some complexity to the situation. We can't get access to his home without a court order and we all live in different places. He didn't have a lot but he did own his condo so that will need to be sold.

The good news for me is I usually jump in and try do everything and my brothers have always let me do that. This time, I'm standing back and letting someone else step up. I've had some shaky moments but it's working out OK.

MAKE A WILL!


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss