Just catching up on the events of yesterday. On my thread I replied to you that you would be playing this conversation over in your head - and there you were.
It is you and me kid.
I agree with Bea and Snodderly, I think your conversation went fine and that you handled yourself well. This is a major thing we are going through as I have only realized as I am going through it. But kudos to you for protecting your finances. Whatever we are feeling, there is a business side that must be taken care of.
Also, what Snodderly says about the OW is true, at least in my experience. In my case, xSO wants a child and she is how he is going to get one. Never mind that he barely seems to factor in that he is also stuck with her for the rest of his life - someone he admits is "desperately trying to save her marriage" (I repeat this often because I just do not get it) but he threw away everything for her. This is not a normal nor healthy relationship. I am not even sure relationship is what I would call it.
I also understand how you feel - physically and emotionally wiped. I was there this weekend and believe that feeling is one step more to acceptance of the situation as it is NOW. Things can change but it may take a long time and sadly, it may be never.
Take care of yourself, B. Your immune system is compromised right now - and no doubt, like the rest of us, you've lost weight and are awake more than you are asleep. I am working on being kind to me, too.
