Help & Advice Needed Please (Thread 3)

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Not posted in a while as I really haven't had anything to say.

I still don't initiate contact with W but she doesn't with me either so not sure this method is really working. I see my W for maybe 2 minutes once a week when we drop off our son etc. it seems she doesn't miss her old life at all. Which does upset me... I do wish she would reach out too me on occasion...

Detaching is going ok - I still miss my W and do occasionally catch myself thinking about her and the OM. I'm learning to stop this pretty quickly though...

I'm still very angry with the sitch but a lot of this boils down to the fact that I don't see my son everyday and miss him dreadfully.

My 180s have been going well as has my GAL. I am a different man to the man my W left - i am financially responsible, i have worked on my temper and i am listening to people very carefully. I'm hoping with time and consistency she can realise this...

She tells me she is "in love" with OM - don't really know what to make of that - of course it makes me very sad though and leaves me with the feeling that reconciliation is impossible. Time will tell...