My situation is above, WAW will not engage and has made it clear that she does not want me and does not find me attractive. It has been going on five months.

I feel that to move on and improve myself I have no choice but to ask her to leave, which she has refused to do to date. She has always tried to control the relationship and I can now see that by trying to placate and support her she has seen me as weak and indecisive.

She is still in contact with OM and I need the house we are in to remain here and work. She has refused to leave the island and I think shee needs to go and live with her OM to find the reality of it.

Me 44
WAS 41
T 11
S 8
D 5
DB November 2012
EA and PA discovered December 2012
WAS moved out 4 May 2013
Share residence of S and D 50/50
WAS moves in with OM 1 September 2013.