A BETTER FRAME OF MIND??????

[MAL]

I remember a few times last year when you were in the "silent treatment" phase....and as I recall, she usually made the first step towards you and ya'll made up. Perhaps if you give her some space, she'll do the same again.

Don't be too hard on yourself. Of course, you have the right to get upset with her....but we both know by now that it doesn't do any good to voice those thoughts. It takes away energy you could use elsewhere, and it doesn't improve the stich at home. Also, when it's over, you just kick yourself for letting yourself go to that "ugly place".

But.....

How much patience does one person have?

I wish I had the magic potion for you. Hang in there.