Good questions, Grizz. It's true, your W pulling back might mean that she feels neglected, just when she is starting to feel closer to you. Then again, it could be that she feels like things were moving too quickly and she didn't want to rush things. I know MWD talks about sticking with a technique long enough to get an accurate read on the results, so you might want to give it some more time. But I suppose that if it is only pushing her away, it's logical that you might want to make yourself a bit more available to her and see where she takes it from there.
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