KD as soon as i asked that question i did realize that anyone who hands over their over friendly shoulder to a married man to sob on is not really on a pedestal.. She set up a successful international jewellery business post her D with a 4 year old who i believe has not seen his father, hence my anxiety.. Its an EA , he told the counselor he speaks to the women for emotional support.. Cadet , thanks for the advice , am going to take it..
Well guys, the latest development is that after 15 years of blaming my folks for every thing thats possible today he texts me saying that he appreciates all that i am doing and is thankful from the bottom of his heart. He is no longer going to blame my parents for the state of our marriage in counselling. He says it sthe two of us who have had compatibility and trust issues.. So i should not have any hope and that he is going to initiate the seperation process. I do think the combination of 180 and DBing has dissolved his anger , though is it just words to speed things along only time will tell.. Hanging in here
hoper me-40,H41 M-15 S-6 Looks like MLC,living together
