Pulpwood! I just remembered/realized something significant based on what you said - my H could very well using DB on me! I gave him the book!
Days after I got home last July and he had moved out, I went to the book store & grabbed the first book I found that had the word divorce in the title. It was DB. And it was not what I was expecting. I read the first 60 pages or so and went back and bought another copy for H and begged him to meet me and gave him the other copy.
Remember the first part of DB is about the unrealized consequences of divorce and hope for marriage. I asked H a few days later if he had read that first part and he said he had. Never asked him about it again and then I found out about OW and we didn't talk for months.
I would be really surprised if H actually continued to read DB and put it into practice because he's never given any indication he wanted to try in our M. But it would be an amusing turn of events, wouldn't it?
I know now DB is supposed to be a secret weapon and not shared with the spouse. Anything I should do to counteract his possible unknowing db attempts? Funny (but improbable) to think about us both having no contact and GAL. Anyone know of spouses both practicing db before?
