WFM, Sorry I haven't posted on your sitch lately. Been a little crazy with thoughts myself. You've asked so many questions of people that truly can only be answered by yourself. You are very fortunate that a lot of old timers and people are still posting on your thread. It's the same things over and over again. You agonize over every little thing your husband does. This is about you! As much as I am upset about my current situation with my W the one thing I know for sure is that progress has been made because of changes i made in me for me!! I still have a long way to go. But W is confused right now because she honestly thought I couldn't make these changes. If you want progress in your R you have to make progress in you first and i think others are getting frustrated because there doesn't seem to be any meaningful progress. You have to make this about you!
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it