Stuck..how do I get out???

[BRNR]

Yep TND, that is why I was drawn to your post same ow dates. I thought maybe we would have some parallels we could learn from. But you are living with your H, mine moved out a couple weeks after I found out. I do think there needs to be a change that we initiate before we are able to make our sitches better, and we do have to gain the strength to do what we need to do. That is where I am at today. Tomorrow, I have to do something I didn't, and quite frankly, still don't want to do, but we need to take control...of ourselves...and stop letting them control us.