Tnd- funny isn't it. My H has been pretty much the same way...I am not trying to hurt you, I care for you deeply, I want what is best for everybody, my door is always open if you want to talk, etc, etc, but hurt and pain is caused by every other sentence and his actions. I pretty much understand where you are coming from regarding bomb drop...I feel the same way and that I might have my own soon...but yet, I am still Standing today....
BombOctober 2012- OW 11/28/12 -H still denies Separated 11/29/12 Own place 12/12/12 Confessed OW/EA/PA 2/2/13 Oct 2013 - I knew I was done Jan 2014 - Anticipating the rest of my life