As much as I would have liked to not spend time worrying about what i have done THIS week to make W angry/hurt with me, I have thought about it a lot. THis is not helping me move on and GAL and the truth is its probably the same hurt and bad memories that caused her not continue our M in the first instance.

My bad. My goal for this week is to reduce the time worrying about this stuff and focus on the positive sides of our interactions. They mostly revolve around the boys and I do try and ask my W how work is going and how her family is which she gives concise responses to. She rarely asks me how things are but this could also be goal. Continue the friendship with no pressure ,look after myself and hope for the best.

No official talk of seperation as yet, no discussion of meeting with a C as a mediator to talk about how to proceed. I wont be initiating anything to speed it along, i will just wait for her when she is ready to proceed with it and try and support her needs through the process.

And Finally...go and pick up my copy of DB which has finally arrived. DR cant be too far behind.

hey 25, I have been thinking a lot about giving my wife an apology, a real one that is unconditional and does not look to make excuses or blame anyone. An apology that acknowledges the pain and hurt i have made her feel and how sorry I am for that. ANy advice or help?

Me - 37
W - 37
M -5
T - 15

S=5
S=3

Seperated - 12/12
BD - 20/03/13
Still seperated - no R or M talk yet.