WW is deep in a 2.5 month affair. I caught her 4 times lying and running off to see him. Married 13 years btw, 3 kids, 13,9,6. She decided to leave, came back 2 days later. I talked to the OM he said they planned to continue the relationship blah blah blah. He told me my WW said our marriage had been virtually over for 8 years, i moved out then had to come back because i had nowhere to go but was staying in basement. Told him i slept in same bed, cuddled, had sex with her 4 times during their affair. He was taken aback. She left me after that he said he would take her but with strict boundaries. Whatever that meant.
Well shes demanded divorce numerous times but she wont file or talk to me about the details. Shes living with him, all week ive been getting i love you texts, i wanna work on the marriage, i really wanna be home crap. She comes over tonight thinking we had something to work on but i realize shes way deep in the fog. Its not right i ask people about the OM, it makes her look foolish. All the bad rumors ive heard about him are just lies. If you really loved me you'd understand what i'm going through.
So i tell her you need to tell him about our convos all week. demands i delete my texts first. then says she'll tell him but she shouldnt have said any of it until she had her head on straight. With the texts i have to much ammo on her she says. Well i deleted them but only after i backed them up and printed out a copy. Should i present these to the OM to drive a wedge in the affair? Its gonna piss her off but i dont really care at this point.
