Give it some more time. She's been home for just a few weeks right? It's not going to happen over night. You've been patient and loving for this long...can you do it a little while longer? And see what happens?
Who knows, maybe a change is right around the corner. If it is, you'd hate to be on the wrong block.
Me 47 Ex H 46 Bomb 9/02 D final 3/04 Ex H now married to OW
------------ This is surviving. There is no such thing as a normal life, there's just life. So get on with it and enjoy it!