I don't think it was "missed". I just think you keep asking specific questions that show how much you're missing the big picture.

Maybe you told us before but I'm sorry, I don't recall:

What are your H's chief complaints about you?

That is what you should be working on, not maneuvers on how to play him to get him back. It's becoming very tiring trying to get you to see this all-important task.

M:63
H:53
S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23
M:15
T:16

Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways."
H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12
12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing