we own a biz - pt 5

[makingmagic]

i guess this was missed... need to know, because it was a 180 for me to stand up for myself, and not chase to make sure he understood. I am trying not to care if he is mad at me or not over it too.... beginning of detachment (hope so)

//ok.. hows this for 180?.. (gosh, so hard to do). Earlier today h, ignored some of my calls and leaving an important business decision in the air, he eventually texted his request. So, 2 hours later a similar situation happened... I ignored his calls/texts, and texted my request. Now, hours later, rec'd a text message from h, that a client is showing up (unexpectedly) suggesting I drop everything and meet client with him. Normally, this is fine... but, I haven't showered and cannot possibly be "on call" because he expects me too. I ALWAYS contact him first to see if a client time is suitable for him. He doesn't give me the same respect. My D knows this and suggested that I text back "too short of notice for me. I can't make it this time. good luck. keep me posted!"

Well? This is me showing some boundaries and asking for respect in return. Did I do it right? (sure feels funny, me not jumping to his demands)//