I'm having a bit of trouble working out how to deal with the following. At advice would be appreciated.

H and I still share a bed. One of his complaints was our lack of sex life which I agree had got very sporadic in the last year or so. I have been initiating a lot more, probably 2-3 times a week. Sometimes H responds, sometimes he is too tired or has eaten to much or just doesn't say anything and falls asleep. When he does decide to join in he seems very remote from it all, there is very little to no talking, and only a very brief cuddle afterwards. Is this 'normal' for the situation?

There is about 5-6 weeks left of the 6months that H agreed to give me to work on things. I don't know if it is his way of distancing in readiness to move out, and I'm not going to ask him, much as I want to!

My GALing for the past weekend fell a bit short, my horse riding lesson on the Saturday was cancelled due to wet weather, but I still got out on the Sunday and spent the day with friends. It's hard when there are happy couples around you for the day frown Hopefully it will be fine enough for riding next weekend.


Me: 49. Him: 51
M: 28 years T: 30
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