Almost everyone told me after BD that they never thought the day would come, they always thought me and X would stay together. Well, nothing in life is certain.
What I meant was that you have put yourself in a position where you depend fully on H, and right now H is unsure about what he wants. This is turning your world upside down, hence the basket rocking away.
Together for 8,5 years. S2 Interest in OM. She left 29.09.12 b/c we couldn't work things out. No signs of OM, not digging. Living in seperate homes, sharing custody.