I am still at a point when I feel blindsided by all this. I still don't fully understand fully everything that is happening. It is so hard to not reach out to my W and just talk, ask why this is all going on. She has told me in very general terms that she feels alone and unappreciated. I just don't know what the straw that broke the camel's back was. I want to talk to her, reach out and touch her, find out what I can do, but right now I have to wait for her to reach out to me and it is so hard. I feel very alone right now.

I am doing everything I can to GAL, but this is just still all so new that its a hard transition.


ME 30. Wife 31.
Married 4 years. Together 10.
One child, 17months old.
Bomb Dropped 3/25/13
Wife wants a divorce.
I had no idea.