I think I need all 3!

This is why I am so intrigued by your thread. Seems our Ws and issue in M are very alike, not identical but similar.

Me: 38 W: 35
M: 9Yrs T: 15Yrs
S8 D5
BD: Feb 13
Still Living Together

I feel like I'm in thick forest, I'm slowly drawing a map of the way out, but not sure yet which side of the forest I will emerge.