Originally Posted By: waitingformagic
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...572#Post2336572
I still depend on him for happiness, because HE is who I want. How do you give up on a dream?


That's fine(underlined), and you don't have to abandon your dream. You need to find a middleground where you still have that dream, but also have an alternative route for your life. When you depend on H for happiness your putting all your eggs in one basket, and that basket is rocking away violently.


Together for 8,5 years.
S2
Interest in OM.
She left 29.09.12 b/c we couldn't work things out.
No signs of OM, not digging.
Living in seperate homes, sharing custody.