W asked if we were going to stay gone all day again like yesterday. I replied that she was also gone all day yesterday too (shopping).
You sound like you're basing your actions on hers.
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She said that it wouldn't have mattered if she came home because no one was here.
And she bases her actions on yours.
Round and round we go!
Be yourself, Grizz. Sounds like she's trying to tell you she was offended that you decided to "avoid" her. Could be wrong, but that's how I hear it.
Remember, just as you are over thinking things, she probably is too. You do something that causes her to do something in response, which then causes you to do something.... and so on and on it goes.
Listen to what she said. Sounds like she considered coming home, but saw it as pointless. Open the door. See what happens.
